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DICHOTOMY: Cutting Into It

11/13/2017

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Noelle Messier in Dichotomy Set Photo by Mark Deliman
Noelle Messier in Dichotomy Set Photo by Mark Deliman
INT. BATHROOM - DAY 
 
Lanky and androgynous with short hair in a slit tank top and sweats, JANE, stares deeply into her eyes in the mirror.
 
One CLICK and the HUM of hair clippers echo through the room.
 
She brings the clippers to the top of her head.
 
Pause.  Deep breath.
 
Holds up her bangs.
 
The first cut is the deepest.
 
She slides the clippers slowly through her hair leaving a line of 1/8-inch fresh fuzz.
My life and my art are often indistinguishable, waxing and waning like the phases of the moon.  On January 1, 2017, I shaved my head.  I shaved my head and I filmed it.
Noelle Messier as Jane in Dichotomy directed by Yannis Zafeiriou
Noelle Messier as Jane in Dichotomy
I cut into my hair and I cut into my life.  I felt a need to dissect, to slice, to sever, to cut myself into pieces, mix them up, and then hopefully sew them back together again.
I was frustrated with waiting for those strong yet soft, butch lesbian roles. I was tired of competing with large or muscular women and feminine LA model chicks with their hair in pony tails and backwards baseball caps, auditioning for the “butch” role.  Or getting auditions canceled because they decided to go with a name.  Sure, I am grateful to be going in for roles originally written for men and happy to occasionally be seen for the doctor or cop or nurse, who just happens to be gay. I am thrilled to see butch roles increasingly being written and casting directors open to diverse interpretation. However, by the time they are cast and end up on TV, they are often homogenized and feminized or neutralized from what was originally written in order to cast a name actress or model or combine all the diversity into one character or just to placate the other half of the country.
Noelle Messier shaving her head live in Dichotomy
Noelle Messier in Dichotomy Set Photo by Joshua Gilstrap
Noelle Messier as Jane in Dichotomy Directed by Yannis Zafeiriou
Poster for Dichotomy starring, written, and produced by Noelle Messier and directed by Yannis Zafeiriou
I was tired of feeling insecure and like I was not enough.  I needed to do something bold.  Express myself.  Make something meaningful. Something that cannot be ignored. Challenge myself and society to see me.  And to not be afraid of it.  So, I shaved my head, for my art and for my life.
I made a short film called Dichotomy that I wrote, produced, and starred in.  It is about a butch lesbian who shaves her head, forcing herself into a battle with her masculine and feminine sides in a humorous and twisted journey of self-discovery.  Yeah, okay, pretty autobiographical.
I knew I wanted to title the script, Dichotomy, but I had to do a little research to make sure I was on the right track to fully express what I was feeling.
The word, “dichotomy,” basically means, to cut in two.  It is made up of the Greek root, “Di” or “Dich” meaning two and “Tomy” meaning to cut into.
 
The first definition of the word, dichotomy, according to Merriam-Webster: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/dichotomy
1: a division into two especially mutually exclusive or contradictory groups or entities – the Dichotomy between theory and practice; also: the process or practice of making such a division – Dichotomy of the population into two opposed classes.
 
The fourth definition is very similar to the first:
4: something with seemingly contradictory qualities
    -it’s a Dichotomy, this opulent Ritz-style luxury in a place that fronts on a boat harbor
     —Jean T. Barrett
Noelle Messier as Jane in Dichotomy Directed by Yannis Zafeiriou
Human nature or nurture loves to divide things into dichotomies, black or white, pink or blue, good or bad, positive or negative, gay or straight, masculine or feminine.  Our whole universe is powered by polarities.  The gravity, magnetism, the tides, and the phases of the moon.  Conflict appears to be inherently natural.
Feminine and masculine have been taken over by society to mean dresses or pants, make-up or not, weak or strong, soft or hard, emotional or stoic, long hair or short hair.  In reality we are all made up of feminine and masculine genes, hormones, and DNA that come in as many variations as there are people on this earth.  We use labels to define who we are and yet at the same time our differences can divide us.  If we could get away from our human need for separation, perhaps we could realize we are all the same within our individual dichotomies and really are part of one loving and peaceful universe.
Noelle Messier as Jane in Dichotomy Directed by Yannis Zafeiriou
Now, if you look at the definition of the word, feminine. Again, quoting from the sexy Merriam Webster.
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/feminine
1: female
2: characteristic of or appropriate or unique to women – feminine beauty – a feminineperspective.
3: of, relating to, or constituting the gender that ordinarily includes most words or grammatical forms referring to females – a feminine noun
4: a: being an unstressed and usually additional final syllable after the final complete foot in a line of verse – a feminine ending.
b: of rhyme: having an unstressed final syllable
c: having the final chord occurring on a weak beat – music in feminine cadences.

 
I get that words have always had masculine and feminine connotations and in many languages the words actually have sexes.  Although, I never understood why one was masculine and one was feminine.  In French, hair is actually masculine.  A butterfly is masculine but a firefly is feminine.  A cat and even a beaver are masculine? At any rate, good for them for not being entirely stereotypical.
I consider myself a butch, lesbian woman. Although, I only use those terms because it is how society tends to describe me.  I still wear make-up and can be very soft, emotional, and nurturing.  Sure, I like to lift weights and be in control. I have masculine tendencies in the way I dress, the way I carry myself, my sexual preferences, and appearance.  But that does not make me any less feminine by definition.  I am still biologically a woman.  I have no desire to physically change into a man.  
Noelle Messier in Dichotomy Set Portrait by Joshua Gilstrap
Noelle Messier in Dichotomy Set Photo by Joshua Gilstrap
Noelle Messier in Dichotomy Set Photo by Mark Deliman
My character, Jane wants to reconnect with her innate femininity through androgyny.  Our hair has meaning to us.  Our hair represents who we are and how we see ourselves.  By removing it, cutting into it, shaving it off, Jane removes that social construct to face who she is beneath it.
Noelle Messier in Dichotomy Set Photo by Mark Deliman
Noelle Messier in Dichotomy Set Photo by Yannis Zafeiriou
Noelle Messier in Dichotomy Set Photo by Mark Deliman
During the film, my character, Jane has a debate with herself in the bathroom mirror mimicking the Gollum vs. Smeagol scene from the movie, The Lord of the Rings, the Two Towers.  Her demonic and strong feminine side tries to suppress her insecure and weak masculine side.  I chose this parody because of the distinct good vs. evil sides plus the added dichotomy of flipping the typical feminine and masculine roles, making the feminine side more aggressive and the masculine side more subservient.  In Jane’s world, society keeps telling her to be more feminine but her soul is fighting to express her masculinity ever present within her innate femininity.
Noelle Messier as Jane as Gollum in Dichotomy directed by Yannis Zafeiriou
Noelle Messier as Jane as Gollum in Dichotomy
​JANE AS EVIL GOLLUM
We wants it, we needs it. Must have the femininity.  They stole it from us, sneaky little lesbianses.
 
JANE AS GOOD SMEAGOL
No, no not lesbianses.
 
JANE AS EVIL GOLLUM
They will make you butch. They will make you shave your head. They will laugh at you.
 
JANE AS GOOD SMEAGOL
Lesbianses are my friends.
 
JANE AS EVIL GOLLUM
You don’t have any friends.  Nobody likes you.
 
JANE AS GOOD SMEAGOL
I’m not listening.  I’m not listening.
 
JANE AS EVIL GOLLUM
You’re a girl.  You love pink.  You love dresses.
 
JANE AS GOOD SMEAGOL
No.
 
JANE AS EVIL GOLLUM
Dyke!
 
JANE AS GOOD SMEAGOL
Go away.
 
JANE AS EVIL GOLLUM
Go away?
 
GOLLUM lets out an Evil LAUGH
 
JANE AS GOOD SMEAGOL
I hate you.  I hate you.
 
JANE AS EVIL GOLLUM
Where would you be without your femininity? I saved us.  It was me.  We got more auditions because of me.
Noelle Messier as Jane as Gollum in Dichotomy
My evil character venomously screams out the word “Dyke” as if it is the worst insult on the planet.  Most people know the term to refer to a lesbian, often in a derogatory fashion, or a dike (American spelling) that refers to a ditch or bank, “to control or confine water.” https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/dike
The British word is actually spelled, “dyke,” like the lesbian term.  Dyke has always had a butch connotation to it. Every day, I am challenged to reconcile my identity as a woman with being a little masculine at the same time. Over the years, lesbians have done a great job reclaiming the word, dyke to just mean, “lesbian.”.  Even the water definition contains a dichotomy.  A “dike” either refers to something hard that forces the water in a different direction or something soft that allows water to collect and pool. Soft or hard, feminine or masculine, even the definition can’t decide.
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Dichotomy banner with Noelle Messier Directed by Yannis Zafeiriou
I often get the question, “Why didn’t you spell the title of the film, “DYKEotomy?”  I considered it because I love some good word play but I really didn’t want to exclude most of the population by focusing with a lesbian lens.  All human beings feel the dichotomy of trying to fit into the categories that society uses to divide us. We are constantly forced into separate groups from the time we are children.  It is no wonder racism, gender discrimination, homophobia, and sexual abuse are so prevalent in this country.
Noelle Messier's freshly shaved head in Dichotomy directed by Yannis Zafeiriou
The second definition of dichotomy was a bit of a surprise to me: 
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/dichotomy
 2: the phase of the moon or an inferior planet in which half its disk appears illuminated.
Noelle Messier in Dichotomy Set Portrait by Joshua Gilstrap
Noelle Messier's freshly shaved hair in Dichotomy
I have always had an affinity for the moon and I have gone through many phases in my life.  I went from straight to bi to lesbian to bi to lesbian.  I still have days where I feel somewhere in between and when I am not in a relationship it gets even more tricky.  This personal battle with masculinity and femininity has taken place frequently in my head and literally on my head.  In my more feminine days, when I had a long tress of dark hair covering my head and shoulders, the moon had only begun its journey.  A dark shadow hiding my true luminous self beneath. It took years of phases.  I went from long hair to mullet to short hair to longer, short hair to shorter, short hair and finally to baldly go where no woman had gone before. The full moon.
Dark shards of hair fall slowly into the white sink.
 
She shaves another line.
 
Jane continues to run the clippers through her hair.
 
More and more hair drops as she runs her hand over her buzzed head.
 
She stares long and hard into the mirror.
 
Her eyes slowly tear up with regret.
Noelle Messier as Jane in Dichotomy Directed by Yannis Zafeiriou
Sure, this regret was written in the script but at the same time, I was experiencing these feelings in real time. Not only was I shaving my head on-camera but I was looking directly into the camera as if it was a mirror.  I could not see what I was doing.  There was a lot of apprehension attached to this decision. How we define ourselves sexually and socially can be fraught with struggle, insecurity, and fear of regret.
Noelle Messier as Jane in Dichotomy Directed by Yannis Zafeiriou
When I finally did get a chance to see the full, hairless moon it was both shocking and liberating. It did really force myself to focus on who I was beneath the hair.  Fortunately, I have a pretty good shaped head.  Physically it felt amazing.  There is nothing like it when you feel the sun caressing your tender scalp for the first time or the tingling sensation of heat escaping through the top of your head, or warm water absorbing into your pate.  I was more afraid of the human reaction.  I was offered a catering job a few days after the initial shave. I didn’t know if I should do it.  It was a small dinner for a Jewish Rabbi. I ended up sending my boss a picture. He thought it looked great and as it turned out, they loved it.  One of the women was extremely complimentary and said she wished she was brave enough to shave her head.  I have been surprised to see how many people focus on my face more with less hair.  I actually get less people calling me “sir.” I like to think they are somehow illuminated by my full moon to see my innate femininity within the androgyny.  I don’t know why that is so important to me?  I don’t think there is anything wrong with appearing or being completely masculine, it is just not who I am.  Occasionally I do get the, “do you have cancer reaction?” but that is mostly from men.  My life has become a bit of a social experiment anyway so I find it all rather fascinating.
Noelle Messier as Jane in Dichotomy Directed by Yannis Zafeiriou
Dichotomy branding for RevryTV
Noelle Messier in photo by Mark Deliman
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Part of the experiment was to see how the new look affected my acting career. I did grow it out to a shorter buzz instead of the full on bald.  Maybe I am selling out but maybe that is just part of where I am at right now?  I was hoping it would give me a bit more distinctiveness, to push me forward into a new category. After all, I was partially inspired by Charlize Theron in the movie, Mad Max. I did book a couple of awesome, TV acting jobs this year, but unfortunately, they both ended up on the cutting room floor.  When these things happen or things get slow or I get lonely, the doubt and insecurity creep back in.  I look in the mirror and I see the monster lurking in the shadows.  My face looks long, or my wrinkles more prominent or my head makes me look like an alien.  This was part of how I got the idea for the film in the first place.  I really do talk to myself and make monster faces in the mirror.  It is when I see the humor and the humanity in it all that it snaps me back into the light.
Noelle Messier as Jane in Dichotomy directed by Yannis Zafeiriou
Pulling it together, Jane fishes in a drawer and pulls out some mascara and begins applying it.
 
The brush slips marking her upper and lower lids black. 
 
Frustrated she draws black lines all over her face.
 
Realizing how ridiculous she looks her mood begins to lighten as she makes faces in the mirror.
 
She rubs her head and GROWLS.
 
She scrunches up her face and hunches her shoulders.
The sun comes out again and I realize it is all part of the process.  By shaving my head, I may have cut myself out of a few of those more feminine roles, that I never got anyway.  However, I am suddenly getting called in and cast as the villain, creature, bad ass, prisoner, crunchy granola type, feminist, and cult member.  Way more fun! I am also beginning to realize that it is okay to face the dark side of the moon, to acknowledge it, and then let it go. No matter what length my hair is or whether I am more feminine or masculine or butch or femme or whatever, it is constantly changing.  The light side comes back around in no time.  The phases of the moon are consistent and yet fluid like sexuality and life can be.   No matter what you do, it will always wax and wane.  Ever consistent in its inconsistency.
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Noelle Messier in Dichotomy Set Portrait by Joshua Gilstrap
Noelle Messier in Dichotomy Set Portrait by Joshua Gilstrap
Finally, we get to the third definition of dichotomy:
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/dichotomy
 3: a: BIFURCATION; especially: repeated bifurcation (as of a plant’s stem)
    b: a system of branching in which the main axis forks repeatedly into two branches.
    c: branching of an ancestral line into two equal diverging branches.
Noelle Messier as Jane in Dichotomy directed by Yannis Zafeiriou
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It is through confronting the dichotomies within us that we truly branch out and grow.  
Our bodies, our organs, our lives are created by dividing cells. Is it even possible to remove division when it is such a part of our biology?  Society can be cruel but it can also lead us to introspection, activism, and change.  Without the election of President Trump, would we have had so many people and even corporations banding together and protesting against discrimination and sexual harassment? Not to mention, a huge increase in women, younger people, and diverse candidates running for office?  Division can be polarizing but it also creates action and further growth.  I am grateful to have my two opposing sides.  They give me the drive to create and to fight for what I believe.
JANE AS GOOD SMEAGOL
Leave now and never come back!
 
JANE AS EVIL GOLLUM
No.
 
JANE AS GOOD SMEAGOL
Leave now and never come back!
 
JANE AS EVIL GOLLUM
Grrrrrrr....
 
JANE AS GOOD SMEAGOL
Leave now and never come back.
 
Pause. She looks around.
 
JANE AS GOOD SMEAGOL (CONT’D)
We told her to go away and away she goes.
She spins and dances around the bathroom.
 
JANE AS GOOD SMEAGOL (CONT’D)
Gone, gone, gone.  Jane is free.
 
She takes a moment and washes the black off and dries her face with a towel.
 
Long stare into the mirror.
 
JANE
Free.
 
Big smile.
Noelle Messier as Jane as Smeagol in Dichotomy
Noelle Messier as Jane as Smeagol in Dichotomy
Noelle Messier as Jane as Gollum in Dichotomy
Noelle Messier as Jane as Gollum in Dichotomy
Noelle Messier as Jane as Smeagol in Dichotomy
Noelle Messier as Jane as Smeagol in Dichotomy
Noelle Messier as Jane in Dichotomy
Noelle Messier as Jane in Dichotomy
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Noelle Messier as Jane in Dichotomy
Noelle Messier in Dichotomy Set Photo by Joshua Gilstrap
In my short film, Dichotomy, Jane eventually drives away the dichotomy within herself to see the light within.  She finds peace and freedom in being the woman she is. It takes Jane about 11 minutes to complete her introspective journey. Dichotomy is based on my feature film script, I.D. In I.D., butch lesbian, actress Jane loses her I.D. card, searches for a sexy, identity thief, helps her gay roommate, Mike make a documentary on gender stereotypes, cracks an identity theft ring, and finds love and her identity, in about an hour and a half.  It is a gender-bending comedy of errors that takes Jane’s journey across New York City. For me, this journey has taken my whole life. I am still fighting and doubting and struggling every day to just feel somewhat comfortable as the butch yet innately feminine woman that I am.
I stare deeply into my eyes in the mirror.  Time to shave my head again.  Every four days to maintain a good buzz.  It is kind of like a rebirth, a reflection. Collect the pieces and sew them back together again. Every time I question my choice it reaffirms my path.
Dichotomy selected by Newest and Cinema Diverse film festivals.
Dichotomy premiered at Cinema Diverse in Palm Springs and NewFest in New York City.  Two of the best LGBTQ festivals in the world. It is a film that can apply to anyone and everyone who has ever felt uncomfortable in their own skin or unable to conform to societal expectations. I would like to see Dichotomy get into some “straight” or mainstream festivals and become more accessible through worldwide distribution. I would like to see my feature script, I.D. made into a movie and I would like to continue to promote the representation of butch lesbians in mainstream media. I want people to see themselves reflected in my mirror. How you express yourself personally, sexually, or socially does not make you more masculine or feminine it just makes you more human.
Noelle Messier with Dichotomy Cast and Crew
I look at my daily calendar and notice there are little symbols that indicate the phase of the moon every month underneath the day of the year.  I never noticed that before.
The full moon shines through my window.  She follows me everywhere.  I feel her light and love shining on my freshly shaved head, guiding my life, and absorbing into my soul. Her shadow, her radiance, her masculine and feminine, her magnetic pull toward love, give me the strength to continue my journey to challenge society and find peace within myself.
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Noelle Messier with Dichotomy Cast and Crew
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